Don't Push My Buttons (Triggered) Limited Edition Giclee Print
Details & Dimensions:
Available in 8x8 and 10x10
Limited Edition of 100 (each size), numbered and signed
Printed on acid-free archival paper
Printed with high-quality ink for color fidelity and longevity
Print arrives with 2 inch white border around image
FREE shipping on all orders within continental U.S.
About This Piece
One of the biggest challenges I work with my clients on is emotional reactivity–being triggered by interactions with others and falling into reactions and communication patterns that don’t reflect their best self.
This tendency shows up in our language. “They made me feel [sad, angry, insecure, etc.]” “If he didn’t do that, I wouldn’t have reacted that way.”
We blame others for pushing our buttons and forget an important truth–you can’t push a button that isn’t there.
Focusing on trying to get others to stop pushing our buttons is a way that we distract ourselves from the only thing we can control–ourselves. When we take responsibility and work on understanding or eliminating our buttons instead of trying to control others’ behavior, we unlock our power to manage our emotional experience and contribute positively to our interactions instead of pouring fuel on the fire.
What are your biggest pet peeves? Your biggest insecurities? Next time you feel triggered, take a moment before reacting and ask yourself:
“What about this situation bothers me, specifically? What does this tell me about my values? Now that I know what’s important to me, what would I like to do next?”
Another powerful line of questioning is, “What am I taking this to mean about me? Is there any part of it that’s true, even if I don’t want to acknowledge it? If it is true, is there anything I want to change or do differently?”